2018 Sex-Positive Holiday Gift Guide!

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Welcome to Pleasure Pie's

2018 Holiday Gift Guide!

Your (sort of) annual guide to finding wonderful holiday gifts for all the sexual empowerment enthusiasts in your life!

A note about this guide: This is intended for people of all genders. Yes, sex-positive feminist stuff tends to look more conventionally feminine, but my goal is to include gifts for people anywhere on the feminine/masculine/etc. spectrum.

* ​Sexual empowerment is for everyone! *

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Sex-Positive Gifts

Let's Taco 'Bout Sex Pin

$1.36
This fun 1" pin makes an excellent conversation starter! "Love Mexican food? Love sex? Combine the two (messy!) with this cute green badge" says Nora Barnacle, Scotland-based artist and maker of this pin.

El Gorrito Condom Art Print

$26.00
This art print from Felix d'Eon (one of my favorite sex-positive artists) is a take on the classic condom-on-a-banana theme. Check out Felix's store for some stunning erotic art prints as well.

YES PLEASE Zine

$4.74
A zine about sex, desire, orgasms, and the writer's journey to embracing their pleasure. "I've often felt that there were no personal stories out there that I could relate to – so with this zine I want to share mine with you." - Louka, You Are Valid Distro

Bears Against Barriers to Reproductive Health Care T-Shirt

$21.00
Who doesn't love bears and reproductive rights? 15% of the profits from this hand screen printed unisex T-shirt will be donated to Planned Parenthood.

Sex Facts Sticker Sheet

$5.00
This set of 9 stickers debunks common myths about the hymen, penis size, abortion stats, and more. Plus some cute body-positive illustrations.

Ethical Flirt Aphrodisiac Lollipops

$5.00
These sensual hard candy lollipops are a great way to get your consensual flirt on. Does your crush have allergies? No worries - these babies are gluten free, vegan, nut free, and free of about a dozen other potentially threatening ingredients.

Fake No Orgasms Sticker

$2.00
Advocate for orgasm equity with this beautifully illustrated "Fake no orgasms" sticker! This sticker is sure to put a smile on the recipient's face.

Believe Survivors Sweatshirt

$38.99
This sweatshirt by Callie of Fabulously Feminist supports people who have experienced sexual assault while also helping to raise funds for the Puerto Rico and Caribbean Hurricane Relief Fund by Global Giving.

Sex Toy Rubber Stamp

$10.00
​This shop has all sorts of sexy stamps, from butt plugs to sperm to birth control to condoms to tampons to genitals - they have your sex-positive crafting needs covered!

Sex-Positive Gift Set

$26.00
Shameless self promotion time! This Pleasure Pie gift set features our sex education and consent advocating tote bag, plus seven sexual empowerment stickers, and a pleasure inclusive sex ed pin.

DIY Till I Die Sticker

$2.50
These fabulous illustrated stickers put the love in "self love." Their Houston-based creator helpfully suggests, "STICK EM ON THINGS!" Don't mind if I do.

It's My First Time I Swear Zine

$4.73
This zine was written by a sex worker about their first days as a stripper, cam model, pro-sub, sugar baby, and escort. The writer wants people to see how much sex work can be like any other job.

Virginity is a Social Construct Card

$4.05
This adorable handwritten holiday card envisions a world where Christmas carolers debunk harmful sex myths while spreading the holiday spirit through song.

Respect Sex Workers T-Shirt

$24.55
This unisex T-shirt makes a clear statement about the importance of respecting sex workers. Many color options!

Not Your Mother's Meatloaf Comic Book

$15.95
Who doesn't want a sex education comic book? This collection of comics demystifies the facts shares from personal experiences. Topics include body image, safer sex, consent, relationships, and more.

PLAY Sex Toy Stickers

$6.61
A set of seven illustrated sex toy stickers so you (or your lucky gift recipient) can cover your (or their) possessions with reminders of sex-positivity and self love!

Sex From Scratch Book

$14.95
​A book about how to navigate sex and relationships in a way that feels right to you, while throwing out traditional expectations of what you're *supposed* to do.

RIP STI Stigma Tote Bag

$20.00
Do you think society needs to change the way we talk about sexually transmitted infections? Spark some stigma-busting conversations with this fun tote bag!

Sex Talk Zine

$15.00
As noted in previous years, these gift guides sometimes double as my own personal wish lists, and this year is no different. This artful sex education zine is full of info about sexual health, barriers, anal sex tips, vulva diagrams, DIY lube recipes, and more. 

(Sex) Education Matters T-Shirt

​$17.34
This unisex T-shirt was made in response to threats to roll back the artist's local sex education curriculum. They donate $5 from each shirt sale to the Canadian Civil Liberties Association, who fights to keep sex ed available.

Love's Not Color Blind Book

$19.95
This 2018 new release explores race and representation in polyamorous communities. Its discusses fetishization, shaming, and exclusion and offers suggestions for how to make polyamorous communities more inclusive of people of color.

The Sexual Freedom Activism Field Guide Zine

$4.00
This handwritten Pleasure Pie zine by yours truly gives practical tips for how you can help create a more sex-positive world. Featuring suggestions for finding community, avoiding burnout, and more.

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Gender Equality Gifts

​Gender Equality Christmas Card

$3.50
This card reads, "All I want for Christmas is... gender equality, universal health care, & basic human decency." Is that too much to ask? You can also buy them in sets for your whole xmas mailing list.

Ruth Bader Ginsburg Hanukkah Card

$4.50
For all the Baderheads in your life (I'm looking at you, Sonja - caregiver to pet fish Ruth Beta Ginsburg). This superbly illustrated Hanukkah card celebrates the Notorious R.B.G. in all her glory (and, more importantly, power).

Ima Badass Zine

$1.50
This zine is a feminist perspective on becoming a mother (Ima is the Hebrew word for "mom"). Zinester Hadass Bar-Lev says, "If making a zine was as difficult as giving birth, this is what such a zine would look like."

The Future is Intersectional Sticker

$5.00
​These friendly illustrated stickers offer hope for a more just future. If that wasn't enough, all proceeds go to the ACLU!

Raise Boys & Girls the Same Way T-Shirt

$10.35
A helpful reminder to parents and caregivers everywhere!

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Body Love Gifts

Custom Body-Positive Portrait

$128.91
Splurge for that special someone with a body-positive commissioned portrait! Alternatively, here's a less expensive option, a penis-specific option, and a vulva-specific option.

Merry Clitmas Cards

$3.54
These gorgeous vulva illustrations make the perfect Christmas card for the vulva pleasure celebrator in your life. Choose from pink or brown, or spring for both!

Santa Cock Card

$5.00
This beautiful uncut penis illustration makes a lovely Christmas card for the body-positive cock enthusiast in your life. Illustrator Sara also makes candy cane cock cards, snowman cock cards, and xmas tree cock cards.

Uterus Cuterus Cookie Cutter

$7.53
​For the body-positive baker in your life! Tip: Gifting a loved one cookie cutters is smart because it may result in them making cookies when you come over to their place. Everybody wins!

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LGBTQ+ Gifts

Queer Sex Ed for All Pin

​$10.00
I absolutely love these enamel pins by sex-positive comic artist slash zine maker Isabella Rotman. Get one for all the sex educators and queer folks in your life!

Trans Sex Zine

$2.95
This zine is full of personal stories of sex, bodies, & desire by and for trans folks. It is a grassroots collaborative sex education project, and if that's not cool then I don't know what is.

Rainbow Menstrual Cup Postcard

​$2.50
This cute illustrated postcard is a great gift for the queer menstruator in your life! Works well for snail mail, or as wall art.

Genderqueer Zines Set

$6.00
​This set of three comic zines includes a zine on asexuality, a zine on autoandrophilia, and a zine based around ​David Bowie's "Changes" album (great album). Impressively illustrated!

Asexual Badass T-Shirt

$29.99
Have you ever noticed that some people don't know that asexuality is even a thing? If you're asexual, you probably have. Now you can increase asexual visibility with this comfy T-shirt!

Too Queer for Here Tote

$13.56
This spacious tote bag is a fun way to spread the queer alien love. "We aim to make the world love and accept us as who we are, but we still have that bit of alien in us" explains London-based artist and tote bag maker Erik.

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Kinky Gifts

Kinky Sticker Pack

$7.93
This set of seven hand illustrated stickers celebrates the kinkier side of sexuality, with themes like spanking, stilettos, and dirty talk.

Kinky Sex Coupons

$15.00
These kinky sex coupons are a fun way to try new things with your partner(s). They're intended for people of all genders and sexual orientations.

Baby Bondage Pins

$9.10
These cute high femme pins celebrate all that is kinky, sparkly, and pink. This is a set of two pins: Luv Paddle and Data (Phone).

La Dama Dominatrix Art Print

$20.00
This art print by Mexico City based artist Felix d'Eon features a sexy femdom with a leather whip and very cute bralette pencil skirt outfit.

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Why I Made This Gift Guide

Part of the reason that I make Pleasure Pie gift guides is because I love gift giving, sexual freedom, and art, and this is a fun way to bring all those passions together.

The other reason I do this is that there are so many people out there pouring their creativity, energy, and time into making awesome creations with sex-positive messages that are meaningful to them. I find it moving to see things made by people who share this passion for sexual freedom. I also find it exciting and encouraging! It's like, look, people care about this! And they're making really cool things! This keeps me optimistic about the cultural shift toward sexual acceptance that I think is already in the works.

Thanks for reading & happy holidays!
<3 ​Nicole