By anonymous Pleasure Pie contributor
It can be hard to find words you’re comfortable using to describe sexual stuff. There are so many weird or uncomfortable connotations that go along with sex-related words. But having a vocabulary you’re more or less comfortable using makes it a lot easier to communicate about sex with your partner(s), and with anyone!
Since better communication tends to mean better sexual experiences, it’s worth a shot!
My go-to words for sexual things
* Your list is probably going to be different from mine, and that’s great too!
** I’m including an “Other options” section for each word, but there are so many options not listed here! These are just to get you thinking.
*** I’m including examples because in some cases they’re useful, but they’re mostly just fun. :)
While these are the words I feel most comfortable using, I am totally cool with other people using different words when talking to me, both in sexual interactions and in non-sexual interactions. And the words I prefer change over time!
What words do you prefer to use when talking about sexual things? What am I missing?